Posts tagged "help"

Oh, hello tumblr!
I just got home from work about an hour ago, all filled with dinner, and taking a break from finishing cleaning my room… OMG I have soooooo many clothing articles! ;) Currently I am putting my stuff away for spring/summer.
This post is to update you on my life lately, I have been a busy bee following my dreams!
You all know that the semester from hell is over, I know I bring it up a lot. But I do that because it was a huge hurdle that I didn’t think I was going to be able to jump, but I did. :) This coming semester? Consists of three photography courses, a cooking class, a hotel mgmt class, and one final marketing class before I GRADUATE FROM COLLEGE! Everything seems to be happening so quickly.
I bet you have all noticed that my blog has been a big “meh” lately, no outfits or crazy modeling excursions. But I promise you there is a BIG reason behind it. Unfortunately it is a big secret right now, but it wont be long before it’s out… Probably about a month. (HOLY CRAP A MONTH?!?! Yea, so I am not entirely ready for it. But I AM excited!)
Yes, this may be a “big secret” but I am looking for ten volunteers to help make it happen, and make it FREAKING UNBELIEVABLY AWESOME!
REQUIREMENTS ARE:
1) I prefer women who are a size 10 and above.
2) Greatly interested in fashion.
3) Willing to share your opinion, in a good manner.
4) FUN and helpful! :)
Want to volunteer? I am looking for 10 ladies. E-mail me telling me how you fill these requirements and why you should be chosen!
I need to choose the final 10 by the end of the week!
Mandy(at)thecurvymodel(dot)com! Thanks! <3333

Oh, hello tumblr!

I just got home from work about an hour ago, all filled with dinner, and taking a break from finishing cleaning my room… OMG I have soooooo many clothing articles! ;) Currently I am putting my stuff away for spring/summer.

This post is to update you on my life lately, I have been a busy bee following my dreams!

You all know that the semester from hell is over, I know I bring it up a lot. But I do that because it was a huge hurdle that I didn’t think I was going to be able to jump, but I did. :) This coming semester? Consists of three photography courses, a cooking class, a hotel mgmt class, and one final marketing class before I GRADUATE FROM COLLEGE! Everything seems to be happening so quickly.

I bet you have all noticed that my blog has been a big “meh” lately, no outfits or crazy modeling excursions. But I promise you there is a BIG reason behind it. Unfortunately it is a big secret right now, but it wont be long before it’s out… Probably about a month. (HOLY CRAP A MONTH?!?! Yea, so I am not entirely ready for it. But I AM excited!)

Yes, this may be a “big secret” but I am looking for ten volunteers to help make it happen, and make it FREAKING UNBELIEVABLY AWESOME!

REQUIREMENTS ARE:

1) I prefer women who are a size 10 and above.

2) Greatly interested in fashion.

3) Willing to share your opinion, in a good manner.

4) FUN and helpful! :)

Want to volunteer? I am looking for 10 ladies. E-mail me telling me how you fill these requirements and why you should be chosen!

I need to choose the final 10 by the end of the week!

Mandy(at)thecurvymodel(dot)com! Thanks! <3333

Hey everyone! I had a follower suggest to me that some of my readers should know more about PCOS. I know I had no idea it existed! So, here is a post by my follower Cole! Read this and LEARN! :}

To the readers of Curvy Couture,

Hi there! My name is Cole and Mandy has graciously welcomed a few of my words onto her blog.

I have something called PCOS which stands for Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome. Most of you have probably never heard of it YET 1 in 10 women (many say 2 in 10) have this! How can this be? That means that about 2 out of every 10 of you women reading this have PCOS. This is why Mandy and I felt this was worthwhile to write about here. Everyone should be at a healthy weight and everyone should be proud of your curves (and comfortable in them)- please know that this is the message at heart here. I don’t want any part of this to be construed the wrong way. 

PCOS kicks in at puberty and basically lasts through menopause. That’s when the symptoms are most noticeable. Most girls who hit puberty and have PCOS might gain a TON of weight all the sudden. This happened to me and it was a bit extreme—like 40 pounds in just a couple months with no diet or exercise changes. I reacted in a way that was not healthy for my body and I was subsequently diagnosed with Anorexia less than a year later. The sad thing is that with PCOS, to loose weight with the disorder WITHOUT medication basically requires restricting your food to an extreme. Those words are from my endocrinologist that specializes in PCOS. So, sadly, it wasn’t until I was 22 that I actually received the correct diagnosis. And, if information about this very common disease had been out there, all I would have had to do was make some simple diet changes and take a $8/month pill.

But no, for years I struggled with yo-yoing weight, tons of water weight gain on my periods, hair loss, acne, facial hair——-yeah. Not fun. And I bet a few of you are nodding your heads here. 

And I always picked up those magazines touting weight loss strategies for women who just can’t lose weight. Someone should have told them it was PCOS that prevented us from losing weight—it would save us all a lot of headache.

To get a diagnosis of PCOS, you can have one, some or all of these symptoms—-or even none! PCOS has really only had a name for about 15 years and as a result, there is no FDA approved treatment or medication. (yet)


+ irregular periods

+ can’t lose weight

+ overweight 

+ depression

+ some facial hair (darker hair on the lip, chin, etc)

+ thinning hair (like male pattern baldness—in any degree)

+ shave your legs and armpits daily because it’s really dark and grows fast

+ infertility

+ depression

+ cysts on the ovaries

+ elevated insulin levels

+ insulin resistance

+ oily skin

+ dandruff

+ skin discolorations (darker skin in upper inner thigh, armpits)

+ high cholesterol

+ high blood pressure

Now, you can be thin and have this too. I know many girls who have no issues with weight and have PCOS.

How to do most women find out they have it? In my experience, they go off the pill to try and get pregnant and discover that they can’t! Many women with PCOS are on the birth control pill because it regulates your period. I was put on the pill at 17 to help regulate my periods and wasn’t diagnosed with PCOS until I was 22. The pill also seems to get rid of most of PCOS’ symptoms.So, women generally find out they have it when they can’t get pregnant. PCOS is the number one cause of infertility in the US.

Why isn’t there more information about this? Well, lots of reasons. First, it shows up in people in very different ways. Some women are stick thin and have it. Others (like me) had irregular periods and couldn’t lose weight). The good news is that more and more women are talking about it and the more voices that are out there saying “I have PCOS” the better. 

How do I get diagnosed? First, talk to your doctor. Make sure they are educated on the latest info with PCOS. A LOT OF NEW FINDING HAVE COME OUT IN THE PAST 18MONTHS. And let me tell, you what they were doing 7 or 10 years ago has been found to not be effective. So, please go to someone who is knowledgeable. Don’t be afraid to ask for a second opinion if you feel like you might have this.
Here is where I go: http://www.jewishhospitalcincinnati.com/cholesterol/physicians.html#Goldenberg

Now, there is no blood test for this condition. Which is why it’s so important to find someone who is knowledgeable. It’s a series of questions. 

What are common treatments? First, the most common treatment is birth control, but not the best. One of the top PCOS researchers in the country feels that birth control does more harm than help. This is an old-school treatment for PCOS but for some women, may be the only thing that works. It’s probably the most common treatment because it was one of the first treatment methods used but like I said up above, new research has come out and doctor’s that are not staying up to date on PCOS stuff might not be aware of new therapies. 

Second, metformin is the second most common treatment. That’s what I’m on. It’s $8 a month with no insurance so it’s affordable. It helps to regulate your insulin receptors and prevents your body from storing everything you eat, among other things. Sometimes it helps to think of PCOS like it’s a cousin to diabetes.

What are common treatments aside from mediation? Well, for me, I’ve found that yoga has done wonders for me. I lost 10” alone in the month of January 2010. That’s right - ten inches.I also have cut out ALL crap food (aside from the occasional cheat at my parents house), I have soda rarely, I cut way, way down on bread and eat mostly fruits and veggies. I learned really fast that eating well makes you feel better and after taking care of myself and really being proactive about my diet, I found that many of my symptoms were the result of poor eating. This might sound crazy, but I always used to feel sick after eating pasta and bread—but I thought it was normal and never really considered it. I know I’m not the only one there— food should make you feel good!Women have also seen good results with acupuncture (I’ve done it! It helped with my water weight and periods.)

Any surgeries? There is a surgical procedure that is done for women with PCOS. They won’t do it on you if you want to have kids. I had this done at 22 because I decided to adopt and forego having biological children in favor of treating my PCOS fully and completely. The surgical procedure is called Ovarian Drilling. It did wonders for me but is not right for everyone. This procedure is not FDA approved and they don’t really know exactly why it works. But, it worked really well for me. 
Now, please note that I am not a doctor or medical professional. I am a woman with PCOS. I have had 6 doctors in my treatment and I’ve spent hours and hours of my time learning about my body and PCOS. You are different from me and will have a different experience that I have. 

How does PCOS work? I am not going to get into specifics here because I am not a medical professional or doctor, but it affects every major body system. Cardiovascular, reproductive, endocrine, etc……I have met women who are on high blood pressure medication, cholesterol medication, medication to reduce water weight, asthma medication only to get diagnosed with PCOS and then switch to just metformin.

Here are some links:

Golden Shoes: This is my network for women with PCOS. I am always here if you have questionshttp://www.goldenshoes.org

And our forum which is in beta: http://talk.goldenshoes.org

Golden Shoes on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/#!/GoldenShoes?ref=ts

Golden Shoes on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/goldenshoes

And you may email me directly at any time: cole@goldenshoes.org

And I want to introduce you to Kara who is the President of Golden Shoes. She has PCOS and has gone through fertility treatments so she has personal experience there that I do that. Her email is kara@goldenshoes.org

I am going to host a chat on Twitter on Thursday night at 8pm EST. Hash tag is #PCOSchat. Join in to ask questions. Should run about an hour. 


Thanks to the fabulous Mandy + Curvy Couture. And for spending some of your time with me.

Many thanks,

Cole

This is Cole now. Happy and healthy. :)

Blah is all I have to say about today.
My friends were all very supportive of my decisions, which was really realllllly helpful. I also talked to him a lot, which makes me feel so much better too. WE ARE NOT BREAKING UP. I have no intention on ever ending it with this boy, he is amazing.
I am just not able to give myself completely to him right now, and I want to get there so bad! He deserves nothing less. IT IS SO HARD not to run back to him now and say I am sorry for putting him through this. But I already did put him through it, now I have to make it all worth it.
I have never done anything like this before in my life, it&#8217;s really weird. I feel like once I get over the shock maybe I will feel better and learn something. But right now I just want him back, I keep having flash backs of all the amazing times we have had. I know this is a good thing, and years from now (after our happily ever after) I will not regret doing it. I just have to push through it.
HELP?

Blah is all I have to say about today.

My friends were all very supportive of my decisions, which was really realllllly helpful. I also talked to him a lot, which makes me feel so much better too. WE ARE NOT BREAKING UP. I have no intention on ever ending it with this boy, he is amazing.

I am just not able to give myself completely to him right now, and I want to get there so bad! He deserves nothing less. IT IS SO HARD not to run back to him now and say I am sorry for putting him through this. But I already did put him through it, now I have to make it all worth it.

I have never done anything like this before in my life, it’s really weird. I feel like once I get over the shock maybe I will feel better and learn something. But right now I just want him back, I keep having flash backs of all the amazing times we have had. I know this is a good thing, and years from now (after our happily ever after) I will not regret doing it. I just have to push through it.

HELP?

Hello people from FYCG!!!! It is nice to meet you!!
My name is Mandy, and I am trying to break into the modeling world. Want to learn more about me? Read this! And pass it on.
UPDATE: I have been sort of down lately. ONLY because my agencies suck at getting back to me. I am with two, and haven&#8217;t gotten work from either. The first one is in Ohio, which is understandable because I am in PA. The second one is in PA, but I was out of the country for 3 months so I&#8217;m pretty sure they forgot about me.
I went to NYC, was denied.
Came home kept a positive spirit.
Now I am working at ModCloth.com, and going to school. I am in the process of updating my portfolio, so that should be fun! :)
Everything has been tough because, none of my agencies believe in me. I just need one person to believe in me as much as I believe in myself and it will be smooth sailing from there. I want to push boundaries like Crystal Renn does. It is just harder than I expected to get there.
Do you know anyone who could help me?

Hello people from FYCG!!!! It is nice to meet you!!

My name is Mandy, and I am trying to break into the modeling world. Want to learn more about me? Read this! And pass it on.

UPDATE: I have been sort of down lately. ONLY because my agencies suck at getting back to me. I am with two, and haven’t gotten work from either. The first one is in Ohio, which is understandable because I am in PA. The second one is in PA, but I was out of the country for 3 months so I’m pretty sure they forgot about me.

I went to NYC, was denied.

Came home kept a positive spirit.

Now I am working at ModCloth.com, and going to school. I am in the process of updating my portfolio, so that should be fun! :)

Everything has been tough because, none of my agencies believe in me. I just need one person to believe in me as much as I believe in myself and it will be smooth sailing from there. I want to push boundaries like Crystal Renn does. It is just harder than I expected to get there.

Do you know anyone who could help me?

Ladies (and Gents, if any gents follow me) I am trying to figure out if I should pursue my modeling in a bigger city. If I did this I would first visit all the major cities, go to the best agencies (Ford, Willhemina, etc.) and see what they think. I would be smart not to move without having any big interest.

Problem #1- My parents find it very important that I get my degree… (I will be a junior in college next fall).

Problem #2- I worry if I do not do it soon I will be too old! :( I already look too old, I am 20 and people think I am 24ish… :(

Problem #3- Am I ready? I feel as though I am, but I can never be positive.

If you have a huge paragraph of advice send it to- fashion4curves1@gmail.com, if not answer it here… I really need your help followers.

What do you think?

About a month ago I did this shoot. Just got this image! It shows the many faces of me. A lot of them are a little silly lol. I am trying to figure out what I look better doing&#8230; Do you like me more emotional looking (more high fashion) or happy (commercial) when it comes to modeling?

About a month ago I did this shoot. Just got this image! It shows the many faces of me. A lot of them are a little silly lol. I am trying to figure out what I look better doing… Do you like me more emotional looking (more high fashion) or happy (commercial) when it comes to modeling?

Hello my big busted friends!
Please tell me you do not look like this on the beach!!
This girl has amazing curves, and needs to be showing them off in a different way!!
Quick rules for swimwear!
Rule #1- See a little muffin top? Fix this by getting bottoms that fit, maybe a size up from what you would expect. Find the happy medium of tight and falling off. :D Ones with ties on the sides are way to easy to pull off&#8230; And harder to keep up.
Rule #2- Her chest is quite large&#8230; (as if you didn&#8217;t notice). I would suggest leaving more for the imagination. There are several bathing suits that you can get that offer great support but still show a little cleavage. &lt;look at previous post for some alternatives&gt;
Rule #3- Do not discriminate against the one-peice&#8230; I know I do it, I worry that I won&#8217;t get a good tan.. TANS ARE OVERRATED, skin cancer is real!
Rule #4- Feel comfortable! If you are the type of person who likes to play beach volleyball or jump around like crazy in the water, get a bathing suit that will keep up. Not one like this where you could fall out at any moment!

All of these tips help you look and feel your best! :)

Hello my big busted friends!

Please tell me you do not look like this on the beach!!

This girl has amazing curves, and needs to be showing them off in a different way!!

Quick rules for swimwear!

Rule #1- See a little muffin top? Fix this by getting bottoms that fit, maybe a size up from what you would expect. Find the happy medium of tight and falling off. :D Ones with ties on the sides are way to easy to pull off… And harder to keep up.

Rule #2- Her chest is quite large… (as if you didn’t notice). I would suggest leaving more for the imagination. There are several bathing suits that you can get that offer great support but still show a little cleavage. <look at previous post for some alternatives>

Rule #3- Do not discriminate against the one-peice… I know I do it, I worry that I won’t get a good tan.. TANS ARE OVERRATED, skin cancer is real!

Rule #4- Feel comfortable! If you are the type of person who likes to play beach volleyball or jump around like crazy in the water, get a bathing suit that will keep up. Not one like this where you could fall out at any moment!

All of these tips help you look and feel your best! :)

Ok, good model (like usual), but the dress&#8230;
Well, its not that bad&#8230; Actually it is not bad at all, pair it with a light brown waist belt and it would look brilliant. But you see how the dress jutts out underneath her breasts? That adds inches to her stomach. She is probably a smaller than what she looks like in this picture. If the dress was tighter right underneath there, or (like I said) add a belt it would solve this issue.
&#187;Always remember ladies&#8230; If you are a pear or triangle or any shape with a waist ALWAYS make sure you show that off! Always be confident in your best feature. If you don&#8217;t know what it is, send me a picture of you to my e-mail, I will help. :)&#171;
Anyways, do you agree with this belt idea?

Ok, good model (like usual), but the dress…

Well, its not that bad… Actually it is not bad at all, pair it with a light brown waist belt and it would look brilliant. But you see how the dress jutts out underneath her breasts? That adds inches to her stomach. She is probably a smaller than what she looks like in this picture. If the dress was tighter right underneath there, or (like I said) add a belt it would solve this issue.

»Always remember ladies… If you are a pear or triangle or any shape with a waist ALWAYS make sure you show that off! Always be confident in your best feature. If you don’t know what it is, send me a picture of you to my e-mail, I will help. :)«

Anyways, do you agree with this belt idea?